Saturday, February 21, 2015

He is my King and my Father. I am His daughter. - January 20, 2015

Yay! Tuesday! I'm glad that we get to e-mail today, because it makes me feel a little less guilty about absolutely loving that nap I took instead. 
So, last Monday I cried in front of my companion for the first time. Actually, it was my first time crying at all since I've been out. The weight of everything just came crashing down. I have been struggling so much with making decisions and teaching right and recognizing the Spirit and just feeling good enough. During companion study I was just feeling useless and during the long silence after Sister Ward had asked me what was wrong I lost it. It felt good though. Definitely relieved the stress. But, I guess this whole time I hadn't been really using Sister Ward to help me with my struggles. I guess I thought I needed to tough it out. She held me when I cried and when I stopped she comforted me and said things that I don't remember, but something clicked and I have felt more confident this week than I have the whole time I've been out. 
So, Brother Button called us that day at 11:00 in the morning and told us about his friend B and that he wanted to learn more about the church. Brother Button told us that we were meeting with him that night at 7:00. We didn't argue with him. Partially because he's the county Sheriff. B came across someone who was teaching about some Mormon stuff and because Brother Button is a member an they work together he asked him about it. B. Button said that he would love to talk about it and would invite some special friends to come teach him about our beliefs. B very adamantly pointed out that he did not want to be converted, but we were excited to come anyway.  
Sister Ward had me practice How to Begin Teaching about 50,000 times which was great because I'm kind of good at it now. :) Then, we role played the Restoration using the pamphlet about a hundred times. My confidence definitely boosted, but I was nervous since this was my first time teaching the first lesson to someone who's never heard the gospel before. 
Brother Button was the best thing we could have had there. B works at the jail and is hard as a rock and is about as open as a sealed book. But, with Brother Button there he opened up just a little and the Spirit was so there! We taught the entire Restoration with the pamphlet and gave him a Book of Mormon. It was the best lesson I have ever been in. Brian even wants us to come back so he can learn more. 
Let me just tell you that Brother Button is the best member missionary in the ward. He touches all the people that he works with in some way, shape, or form. There's even this one guy named R who may be interested. We love member missionaries. I don't think people realize how much we need members to share the gospel. It is essential. Knocking doors is not the best way to find those who are ready. 
My confidence in teaching is definitely boosted. I take part in the lessons more and I'm even approaching total strangers by myself without blinking. Heavenly Father knew what I needed that day. I'm not all the way there. but I'm growing. 
Funny story time! 
So, we tracted into the last home at the end of the street into this cute woman, J, and her daughter, C. She wanted us to pray with her whole family there and said for us to come back. We came back at the appointed time, but no one answered. 
As I was looking through our former investigator teaching records I actually found them and was really curious as to why they were dropped. The previous Sisters wrote: 
We went back to pray with them and we found a little note on the door explaining that she was lesbian and wasn't ready to change at the moment Try back! 
So, being the persistent missionaries that we are and thinking that maybe it was a joke to get us to go away we went back...and J's partner slammed the door in our face. It was hilarious, but sad...but still funny. 
Funny story number two! We went to Walgreens yesterday to see if they had any instant printing for pictures. Sister Ward needed to print some for her planner cover. We went in and asked and the lady called the manager to help us. We stood around for a bit and when she showed up we asked about it again. She gave us this puzzled look and said, "She called me up to help you with that?" Confused, we watched her walk down an isle. She beckoned to us and we followed. Then she showed us where the instant pudding was. It was so hard to not laugh as she showed us our options. Needless to say, we went to CVS for our pictures. 
We haven't been able to see the K family for three weeks now. V has stomach cancer and doesn't feel well all the time. We really hope that he gets better. Kh (his wife) has really been struggling through it all. 
D has been slow and steady. She's at the high point in her cycle,but is starting to hit the downward slope. We had a great lesson with her on Sunday with N (she's leaving on a mission in two years). It was great and the Spirit was there. Everything that D needed to hear was said. She even voiced that it was exactly what she needed. We commited her to pray about a baptism date. Then, yesterday she called us before our lesson to tell us about her headache...she has those a lot. It's weird how they happen only on days we want to meet with her for a follow up. She still has the ache today, but we're hoping she takes some Tylonol and a nap. Slow and steady. Patience, patience, patience. 
The weather has gotten a lot warmer! The sun has been shining all week and it might do the same this week. It has brought a lot of people out of their homes and into the great outdoors where we are. Haha! 
We met this one wonderful woman named M. She is awesome. She loved talking to us. We probably stood there for a good 45 minutes. M talked all about her life. Her daughter died in a car accident when she was 15 years old and her husband is completely paralyzed from being hit by two semi-trucks. We talked to her about how the message that we have has strengthened our families. I even shared about my awesome brothers. Yeah, you. Josh and Sam. :) She was really intrigued, but was too busy to set up a return appointment with us. She said to try her in the Spring. Well...guess who's going to be here in the Spring? Also, she had a beautiful Great Dane. I loved him. I want one someday, maybe. 
Yesterday was the best member dinner appointment I've ever been to. The F family is young and cute. I played 'Cars' with their youngest son, Da. He is adorable. H is the next Taylor Swift and D knows girls have cooties. Except for mom. When it was time to eat thy realized that the food was completely burned. So, Brother F started the car so he could go get pizza. The car didn't start. So, we drove into the garage and jump started it. We played basketball with the kids until he came back with the pizza. Da insisted that we sit on either side of him. 
He turned to me in the middle of the meal and said, "Do you have a baby?"  
"Nope." 
"Oh," and then he turned to Sister Ward. "Are you a Mommy?" 
"No, I'm a missionary." 
"Oh..." 
"Plus, I need a Daddy to be a Mommy." 
Da quickly turns to face her, "Why?" 
I almost choked on my pizza and died. 
Elder Geary left to Indian trails and our District Leader, Elder Wallace, got promoted to Zone Leader somewhere else. Elder Seal went home. I survived my first Transfer! Woo! Our new District leader is Elder Russel. 
Anyways, that's my week! 
Love,
Raye 
Pictures: 

1- My first District! Left to right: Elder Seal, Elder Geary, Elder Jacobson, Elder Hardy, Elder Black, Elder Wallace, Hermana Jensen, Hermana Wilkinsen, Sister Ward, and me.
 

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